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Jessica Soho rejects Vice Ganda guesting on 'KMJS' for the second time: The lasting effect of a scandalous joke.

News about showbiz in the Philippines usually boils down to who is fighting with whom, who has teamed up with whom, and who has reconciled with whom. But then there are some controversies that just do not seem to go away, leaving it all unsettled even years after the controversy first arose. One such controversy involves GMA's respected journalist Jessica Soho and comedian Vice Ganda, who have been at odds once again recently over Vice Ganda's bid to be a guest on Soho's show, Kapuso Mo, Jessica Soho (KMJS).

The History Behind the Brawl

The Jessica Soho and Vice Ganda feud began over a decade ago, when Vice Ganda performed at the Araneta Coliseum on May 2013. In his concert, he made a joke that everyone considered offensive, insensitive, and very inappropriate. This joke made reference to Soho, involving very sensitive themes like gang violence and sexual assault. Vice Ganda's punchline belittled the idea of Soho, that respected figure in journalism, in a "gang rape" scenario with accompanying jokes about food. The remark quickly became sparks for outrage from netizens and personalities who condemned it to be offensive and distasteful.

Jessica Soho herself, who is respected for professionalism and commitment to journalistic integrity, was reportedly hurt by the joke. The reaction compelled Vice Ganda to apologize publicly on air, but the damage between them had already been inflicted. Subsequent years passed with Soho's reaction setting the definition of the extent of boundaries of humor and respect that should not overstep in entertainment. Indeed, viewers sympathized, saying some jokes are taken too far and cross certain ethical limits.

Vice Ganda's Chance to Reconnect

Cut to the present, Vice Ganda has been working for months at the compound of GMA on It's Showtime. One of the flagship shows of ABS-CBN was the noontime show that was given a new home on GMA platforms when the franchise was not renewed. This gave Vice Ganda a chance to get closer to GMA's programs and viewers.

Vice Ganda and his team believe that guesting in KMJS, one of GMA's most-watched programs hosted by Jessica Soho, can further help promote new segments on It's Showtime and give the comedian an exposure to his upcoming MMFF entry this December. However, reportedly, Soho declined for the second time despite the ratings boost it would bring along with it as well as the "media moment" that would surely come along with it. According to sources, she felt that Vice Ganda as a guest would become a "media circus" and does not deserve her kind of show on KMJS.

Public Reactions and Social Media Buzz

Soho's denial of Vice's appearance at the show immediately gained ripples online. Many netizens said they supported Soho's decision since what happened was justified and understandable concerning Vice's past joke. They said that Soho, who spent her career advocating credibility and responsible journalism, must still be stung by that experience up to this day. Some commented that Soho's decision not to include Vice Ganda on her show was a statement on respect and accountability, especially with sensitive topics.

However, there is hope for reconciliation. They say time has passed, and Vice Ganda has since been reformed in his comedic approach, moving away from topics that are controversial, instead working to deliver humor that does not cross personal or ethical boundaries. The fans wondered if Soho and Vice Ganda could reconcile, considering they are under the same network umbrella.

Can reconciliation happen?

While both share the same professional space in GMA, being able to put aside personal grievances isn't always easy. For Soho, hurt is not just a word when Vice Ganda said it way back 2013. It may feel like a very personal attack on her dignity. For Vice Ganda, having Soho decline his guest appearance twice might mean that there's still work to be done in terms of mending their relationship, if that's even possible.

Forgiveness is such a hard process, and in a public conflict such as this, sometimes it requires one to recognize the past yet move forward respecting each other's boundaries. Vice Ganda said sorry regarding his comment about Soho, but if that effort to reconcile would be enough to change Soho's attitude, only time will tell.

A Lesson in Accountability and Sensitivity in Comedy

This reminds me how much weight words and jokes carry, especially said to public figures who have built their lives around principles and hard work. This is meant to be humorous, yet at the same time provoke thought as they hurt and belittle the person. Even with a profession that pushes boundaries to the extreme, there's still the responsibility of respect for others and how much comedy can influence the mind.

This decision by Jessica Soho to turn down Vice Ganda for guesting says much about accountability. She has, in the entertainment and media world, seen that both actions and words can be unforgiving in their consequence. For viewers, this is a testament to taking a stand against dignity and values, no matter what reconciliation may serve professionally.

Looking Ahead: Will They Make Amends?

As It's Showtime remains on the air on GMA, viewers are itching to know if the two personalities will ever work things out, especially since Vice Ganda wants to guest on KMJS this December to promote his movie. That would be a much-publicized pardon if Soho actually extends an olive branch, and such a reconciliation may actually usher in not just a new page for themselves but also for their fans.

For now, though, the future is blank. Jessica Soho shows that in refusing to be a guest of Vice Ganda, values and boundaries do matter in this world of show business, respect and accountability having to be learned and adhered to. Whether these two public figures can make their differences fade away is to be seen, but this story about them teaches so many in the entertainment world and beyond.

And will Vice Ganda be forgiven by Jessica Soho in the end? Only time can tell. For now, we can all take this as a reminder of respect, accountability, and how our words can really linger, both in and out of the spotlight.